there is always a ‘period’ at the beginning of a relationship where you cant stand being away from each other.. you talk 24/7, you think about them all the time.. this is the ‘honeymoon’ period. How long does it last? anywhere from one week to the first month or two.
TRUE.
now, the ideal thing is a sort of give and take relationship.. right? i mean a fun, flirty relationship where you’re not sick of each other after say.. 5 months, a year ? specific time limits are stupid and i’m not even gonna attempt that, but yeah.
TRUE.
you will think other girls are hot when you’re going out with someone else… past the honeymoon period at least. you might even be tempted to cheat . don’t . being on the recieving end of cheating.. it sucks , alot.
WOULDN’T KNOW
so what if someone cheats on you? what do you do?
-get angry
-forgive them
-ignore it
you definitely shouldn’t ignore it..
forgiving them is tricky, you should go with your feelings, and prayer, too. Obviously, unless you have the patience of a guru, you’re gonna get angry.
TRUE. My choice-> forgive
ex girlfriends — should you go out with someone that you broke up with before?
I’m dealing with this one right now, so.. I’m not even sure. More on this later
HARD ONE, BUD. There must have been a reason you broke up, but resort to prayer. That’s the only way you’ll know.
Long Distance Relationships
Unless you have some sort of history BEFORE you start trying to go out w/ each other.. futile. Stupid. ANd lame.
TRUE. If you do continue a relationship over distance, for goodness sake, communicate and keep God at the center!!!!!
Smothering your significant other
they’re gonna need their own space. girls like guys that pay attention to them.. but not to the point of taking over there entire life. it makes you look clingy and controlling. bad..
TRUE. I like getting smothered, but I can see how it could be a problem.
sexual attraction vs / personality attraction
duh, if you’re only attracted to their body, or if you’re only like making out with them all the time and you never talk.. somethings wrong. If you can’t talk to the other person, whats the point? alternatively, you don’t need to talk all night every night. give the other person and the relationship time to grow and mature.
TRUE. But it’s ok to talk all night sometimes.
Kimmy and I have been very happy and successful for over 2 and a half years now. Some things that help keep us closer (and on the right path) are doing a devotion together, communicating, being completely open and honest w/ each other, lots of prayer, and letting God be in control. Also, be patient and understanding, don’t make assumptions, and put yourself in the other person’s shoes before speaking or making any decisions! One more thing: 1 Corinthians 13:4-8
The Kryptonian 